Welcome to the Family!

We cordially invite all Family Creations surrogates from the past, present, and future to join our very cloak and dagger, Secret Facebook Surrogate Support Group. We created this group for you to share stories and support one another- maybe even make a friendship or two!

Your privacy is important to us, which is why we’ve taken measures to keep this group discreet. The “secret” setting is Facebook’s most private security level for groups.

Benefits of secret groups:

1) Not searchable

2) Not viewable to non-members

3) The group will not show up on your Facebook profile.

The first step is to become FB buddies with our CEO, Julia Alkire.

Why, you ask? Our private group was created under our CEO’s FB page, and since our FB group is “secret”, we’re only permitted add Julia’s “friends” to the group**. Once you’ve been added to the group, you can unfriend Julia. She won’t take it personally. 🙂

**If you would like to join the group under a pseudonym, please create a separate Facebook account and talk to your Case Manager about adding you to the group.

One more thing!

Before you get started on posting, please read over our Rules and Etiquette.


  • Be nice. It’s acceptable to express your opinion and to own it as your own — but it’s not nice to compromise the safe, open, and supportive environment of our group.
  • Please do not share confidential information about the Intended Parents that you are working with.
  • Please do not discuss your fees with one another.
  • Do not forward posts or replies without permission of the original author. All content must stay within the forum and cannot be shared with a third party.
  • This group is exclusive to Family Creations Surrogates ONLY.


This group is monitored by Family Creations staff. Moderators reserve the right not to publish or delete posts and/or replies that are deemed offensive, illegal or otherwise unsuitable based upon the established group rules & etiquette. Should a posting be deemed objectionable, the moderator will contact the author, explain the reasons and encourage the participant to revise the post so that it is acceptable. You may lose your right to participate based on your behavior in the group.

The opinions posted on the forum belong to the original author of the post and/or reply, and do not necessarily represent the views or beliefs of Family Creations, LLC. The forum is for support and discussion among Family Creations surrogates only and is not designed to render medical advice. The statements or assertions made by members via posts and comments should not be used in place of a visit, call, consultation, or advice of a member’s physician or other healthcare provider. If a member suspects they have a health problem, they should seek immediate medical attention and consult their physician or health care provider. The forum is also not designed to render legal advice. Members are encouraged to consult an attorney regarding the facts specific to their situation in their jurisdiction. Likewise, the forum is also not intended to provide tax advice. Members are encouraged to consult a licensed tax professional.

If you have any questions about something you read on the Family Creations Secret Surrogacy Facebook Group, just contact your lovely Case Manager.

We’re here to help you along every step of the way!

by Julia McConnell | Last updated on : June 27, 2023