Understanding IVF for Lesbian Couples

 A lesbian couple awaiting the birth of their IVF baby.

Our team at Family Creations works with many same-sex couples who have decided to have a baby. There are many options to assist with conception, but the one we get the most questions about is reciprocal IVF. What is in vitro fertilization, and how can it help with family planning? 

With reciprocal IVF, lesbian couples have the opportunity to mutually be a part of conceiving their child. This process allows both women to have a part in their birth so that they can be equally bonded to their child.

Reciprocal IVF: What it Involves for Lesbian Couples

What is reciprocal IVF for lesbian couples? It’s when one partner is the egg donor while the other is the gestational carrier who will give birth to the baby. 

The woman who donates her eggs will undergo a procedure to extract the eggs from her ovaries. They’ll then be fertilized by sperm from a chosen donor in a fertility lab. Then, the fertilized egg(s) will be implanted in the uterus of the other female partner so that pregnancy can begin. 

Lesbian couples who may want a second child can reverse the roles for the subsequent pregnancy, so each has a biological relationship with one child while also getting to experience giving birth. Another option to consider with reciprocal IVF is to freeze the embryos and transfer them to the woman after completing hormone treatment. The process generally mirrors a typical IVF cycle and is similar in cost to a cycle of IVF and fertility medications.

What is the Cost of Reciprocal IVF?

Costs for reciprocal IVF often range from $16,000 to $30,000, depending on the couple’s specific situation. Couples should also consider legal requirements and costs that may be required depending on the state they live in.

Reciprocal IVF: What Couples Need and Where to Start

For same-sex couples exploring options for starting a family, it’s essential to collaborate with an agency that has experience working with the LGBTQ+ community. At Family Creations, all our team members are experienced working with intended parents in same-sex marriages and relationships. Please get in touch with us with any questions you may have about egg donation and IVF for lesbian couples or surrogacy options for gay men. We will make every effort to connect you with LGBTQ-friendly resources to help fulfill your dream of parenthood.

Everyone’s Welcome at Family Creations!

Regardless of sexuality, gender identity, or relationship status, all are welcome at Family Creations! Our professional team gladly takes the time to answer all your questions about egg donation and surrogacy and how to navigate the path of creating a family. We look forward to working with you to have the family you’ve always wanted! Contact us today.

by Julia McConnell | Last updated on : February 5, 2025